When's the big event?

Our ceremony will be on January 3, 2027 at 3:30 pm.

Are there accommodations near the venue?

Yes! Alliana desperately tried to book hotel blocks early but Philippines is too type B for that. Please refer to the Travel-Tagaytay section on the website for recommendations on where to stay.

Where are you registered?

Joining us is the best gift we could ask for! However, if you are still looking for a wedding gift, you can access our registry at https://www.zola.com/wedding/allianajesslin/registry

As much as we'd love to bring our beloved angely boy with us, he would hate the heat and city and Alliana and her mom would die worrying about him getting fleas or lost. He'll be with us in spirit.

This is my first Filipino Wedding. What should I expect?

Food, lots of fun, some filipino traditions. We'll do a traditional filipino ceremony (don't worry, there's no catholic mass so it will be quick) and at some point during the reception, do the "Sabitan ng Pera" or "Money/Prosperity Dance." Guests are welcome to dance with the brides and pin money on their dresses to symbolize wishes for good fortune and a happy, prosperous life together.

Alliana & Jesslin

when:

January 3, 2027
3:30-11:00 pm

where:

Tagaytay, Philippines

life together
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Ever a lesbian cliché, Alliana and Jesslin were quickly inseparable. Jesslin appreciated that apart from her mom, Lin, Alliana was the most capable person she had ever met. Alliana appreciated Jesslin’s sense of humor, big heart, and grounding presence. Alliana moved in in February of 2024. Doug drove the U-Haul🙂

Over the next year and a half, Alliana and Jesslin skied, traveled, and played lots of cribbage, guitar-hero, and pool. Alliana became quite familiar with Minnesota, which was “just not where she thought it was,” and Jesslin started watching beginner Tagalog videos before bed. Jesslin realized she had never felt more at home and Alliana realized she didn’t need an emotional support color coded Excel spreadsheet, she just needed Jesslin.

Our Story

meet cute
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Thankfully, the lesbian dating pool in Alaska isn’t huge and they matched a few days later 💘 Jesslin, not knowing that Alliana hates beer, suggested King Street Brewery. Trying to seem “chill”, Alliana agreed.

Despite being violently ill the days before and nearly cancelling, Alliana made it to King Street and quickly admitted that she in fact hated beer. Nonetheless, they had quite a bit to talk about: Alliana knew another Wooliver, but he was an older guy who worked for the court system and had great style and hair….it couldn’t be. But yes! Jesslin is in fact Doug Wooliver’s daughter. Alliana knew this was a good sign—everyone loves Doug.

It was June of 2023. Jesslin was having a summer of increasingly boring hinge dates but was excited to find Alliana’s profile—she immediately swiped right.

Alliana had just finished up what would be her last session in Juneau, was in a frenzy, and set on having a hot girl summer. She was driving up the AlCan with her bff Marissa, when a photo of a cute, red-headed public defender drinking a giant margarita with another woman captioned, “this could be us” popped up on Hinge. Alliana wondered if the other woman in the photo was a friend or an ex-girlfriend. She decided she didn’t care and would swipe right. She then lost signal.

Alliana and Jesslin also quickly noticed that they had both attended Robert Service High School, allowing them to reflect on common teachers, classmates, and scandals. They agreed on the fundamentals— Tarbath left much to be desired; Ilgen was the best.

When J finished her beer she did not want the date to end but she did want Alliana to have a drink she’d enjoy, so she suggested they go to Bear Tooth. They went and ordered the same exact thing: a California dream bowl and hot pink habañero margarita. Alliana, still recovering from illness as you’ll recall, puked the minute she got home. But she did get Jesslin’s number and presumably a second date. She considered it a win:)

In May 2025, after months of texting proposal ideas to Marissa and telling Jesslin to propose first, Alliana surprised Jesslin by asking her to marry her at their home with a gorgeous ring that Jesslin saw once and loved. Later that evening, after a long drive to Homer and months of also texting Marissa her (apparently very similar) proposal ideas, Jesslin asked Alliana to marry her with a gorgeous ring that Jesslin designed without reference material of any kind.

And here we are today. Wedding planning has brought out the best in both Alliana and Jesslin, and though they will forever cherish this special time, they cannot wait to share more stories with you LIVE in Tagaytay, Philippines, 2027!!

the big q
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It was June of 2023. Jesslin was having a summer of increasingly boring hinge dates but was excited to find Alliana’s profile—she immediately swiped right.

Alliana had just finished up what would be her last session in Juneau, was in a frenzy, and set on having a hot girl summer. She was driving up the AlCan with her bff Marissa, when a photo of a cute, red-headed public defender drinking a giant margarita with another woman captioned, “this could be us” popped up on Hinge. Alliana wondered if the other woman in the photo was a friend or an ex-girlfriend. She decided she didn’t care and would swipe right. She then lost signal.

Thankfully, the lesbian dating pool in Alaska isn’t huge and they matched a few days later 💘 Jesslin, not knowing that Alliana hates beer, suggested King Street Brewery. Trying to seem “chill”, Alliana agreed.

Despite being violently ill the days before and nearly cancelling, Alliana made it to King Street and quickly admitted that she in fact hated beer.

meet cute
-

Nonetheless, they had quite a bit to talk about: Alliana knew another Wooliver, an older guy who worked for the court system and had great style and hair….it couldn’t be. But yes! Jesslin is in fact Doug Wooliver’s daughter. Alliana knew this was a good sign—everyone loves Doug.

Alliana and Jesslin also quickly noticed that they had both attended Robert Service High School, allowing them to reflect on common teachers, classmates, and scandals. They agreed on the fundamentals— Tarbath left much to be desired; Ilgen was the best.

When J finished her beer she did not want the date to end but she did want Alliana to have a drink she’d enjoy, so she suggested they go to Bear Tooth. They went and ordered the same exact thing: a California dream bowl and hot pink habañero margarita. Alliana, still recovering from illness as you’ll recall, puked the minute she got home. But she did get Jesslin’s number and presumably a second date. She considered it a win:)

life together
-

Ever a lesbian cliché, Alliana and Jesslin were quickly inseparable. Jesslin appreciated that apart from her mom, Lin, Alliana was the most capable person she had ever met. Alliana appreciated Jesslin’s sense of humor, big heart, and grounding presence. Alliana moved in in February of 2024. Doug drove the U-Haul🙂

Over the next year and a half, Alliana and Jesslin skied, traveled, and played lots of cribbage, guitar-hero, and pool. Alliana became quite familiar with Minnesota, which was “just not where she thought it was,” and Jesslin started watching beginner Tagalog videos before bed. Jesslin realized she had never felt more at home and Alliana realized she didn’t need an emotional support color coded Excel spreadsheet, she just needed Jesslin.

the big q
-

In May 2025, after months of texting proposal ideas to Marissa and telling Jesslin to propose first, Alliana surprised Jesslin by asking her to marry her at their home with a gorgeous ring that Jesslin saw once and loved. Later that evening, after a long drive to Homer and months of also texting Marissa her (apparently very similar) proposal ideas, Jesslin asked Alliana to marry her with a gorgeous ring that Jesslin designed without reference material of any kind.

And here we are today. Wedding planning has brought out the best in both Alliana and Jesslin, and though they will forever cherish this special time, they cannot wait to share more stories with you LIVE in Tagaytay, Philippines, 2027!!

meet cute
-

life together
-

Ever a lesbian cliché, Alliana and Jesslin were quickly inseparable. Jesslin appreciated that apart from her mom, Lin, Alliana was the most capable person she had ever met. Alliana appreciated Jesslin’s sense of humor, big heart, and grounding presence. Alliana moved in in February of 2024. Doug drove the U-Haul🙂

Over the next year and a half, Alliana and Jesslin skied, traveled, and played lots of cribbage, guitar-hero, and pool. Alliana became quite familiar with Minnesota, which was “just not where she thought it was,” and Jesslin started watching beginner Tagalog videos before bed. Jesslin realized she had never felt more at home and Alliana realized she didn’t need an emotional support color coded Excel spreadsheet, she just needed Jesslin.

In May 2025, after months of texting proposal ideas to Marissa and telling Jesslin to propose first, Alliana surprised Jesslin by asking her to marry her at their home with a gorgeous ring that Jesslin saw once and loved. Later that evening, after a long drive to Homer and months of also texting Marissa her (apparently very similar) proposal ideas, Jesslin asked Alliana to marry her with a gorgeous ring that Jesslin designed without reference material of any kind.

And here we are today. Wedding planning has brought out the best in both Alliana and Jesslin, and though they will forever cherish this special time, they cannot wait to share more stories with you LIVE in Tagaytay, Philippines, 2027!!

the big q
-

Despite being violently ill the days before and nearly cancelling, Alliana made it to King Street and quickly admitted that she in fact hated beer. Nonetheless, they had quite a bit to talk about: Alliana knew another Wooliver, but he was an older guy who worked for the court system and had great style and hair….it couldn’t be. But yes! Jesslin is in fact Doug Wooliver’s daughter. Alliana knew this was a good sign—everyone loves Doug.

Alliana and Jesslin also quickly noticed that they had both attended Robert Service High School, allowing them to reflect on common teachers, classmates, and scandals. They agreed on the fundamentals— Tarbath left much to be desired; Ilgen was the best.

When J finished her beer she did not want the date to end but she did want Alliana to have a drink she’d enjoy, so she suggested they go to Bear Tooth. They went and ordered the same exact thing: a California dream bowl and hot pink habañero margarita. Alliana, still recovering from illness as you’ll recall, puked the minute she got home. But she did get Jesslin’s number and presumably a second date. She considered it a win:)

It was June of 2023. Jesslin was having a summer of increasingly boring hinge dates but was excited to find Alliana’s profile—she immediately swiped right.

Alliana had just finished up what would be her last session in Juneau, was in a frenzy, and set on having a hot girl summer. She was driving up the AlCan with her bff Marissa, when a photo of a cute, red-headed public defender drinking a giant margarita with another woman captioned, “this could be us” popped up on Hinge. Alliana wondered if the other woman in the photo was a friend or an ex-girlfriend. She decided she didn’t care and would swipe right. She then lost signal.

Thankfully, the lesbian dating pool in Alaska isn’t huge and they matched a few days later 💘 Jesslin, not knowing that Alliana hates beer, suggested King Street Brewery. Trying to seem “chill”, Alliana agreed.

Wedding Details

the venue
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Ville Sommet

#5 JP Rizal St.,

Sicat Alfonso, Cavite, Philippines

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schedule
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Venue doors open

Cocktail hour

3:30 pm

Ceremony

5:30 pm

Reception!

4:15 pm

3:00 pm

Reception!!

5:30 pm

Cocktail hour

4:15 pm

Ceremony

3:30 pm

3:00 pm

Venue doors open

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wedding attire
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We are going for colorful, semi-formal attire. Think summer garden party but a little fancier! We suggest maxi- or midi- length dresses, dressy separates, or a linen suit and tie. If you have a barong or filipiniana you've been wanting to wear, please do!

Remember, the ceremony and cocktail hour are outside on the grassy lawn. It will be around 70 degrees and humid so dress accordingly and wear the appropriate footwear.

Please avoid wearing black, white, cream, ivory, etc. Florals, fun patterns, and colors are highly encouraged! Here are some outfits for inspiration!

wedding party
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Marissa Exelby

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Maid of Honor

Molly Wooliver

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Maid of Honor

Marla Salanguit

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Bridesmaid

Primary

Maria Tarrayo Apilado & Jayson Apilado
Mateo Banggiacan & Michael Wilson
Sandy Espanola
Jodi Heiser & Doug Michels
Lucena & Amando Lagman

Elvira & Benjie Lapuz
Efleda Lastimoso & Noel Lastimoso

Jane & Dave McVeigh
Amor & Carol Mostert

Racel & Ricky Pascual

Lisa & Dennis Poirier

Liz Wallace & Craig Rice

Vanessa Viola-Daly

Malou & Robert Yamat

godparents
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Secondary

Unity Candle

Heidi Drygas & Kevin Sund

Veil

Molly Wooliver & Joey Cassady

Cord

Anna Knight & Ami Salanguit

Arras (Coins)

Anna Knight & Ami Salanguit

Travel

exploring the Philippines/SE Asia

The Philippines consists of 7,500+ islands, 300+ volcanoes, and has 180+ official languages. It's famous for its beaches, rice fields, and love for karaoke and Jollibee. We recommend minimizing your time in Manila and exploring the country. There's a lot to see!

Want to see other places? Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore, Bali, Taiwan, China, even Japan, and more are just a short flight away.

where we've been

Coron

Known for its island hopping and clear waters. It does take two flights and maybe a ferry ride to get there now :(

Boracay

One of the most famous beaches in the world. Pretty crowded and touristy but always worth the visit. Mango Mama is a must there.

Japan

Ok obvs not in Philippines but it's just 4 hours away.

where to stay

If you want some down time, quiet, and to lower Alliana’s mom’s blood pressure leading up to the wedding, we recommend staying in the Alabang area. It’s more walkable, there is less traffic, has most things you need, and is only about 30 minutes away from Manila proper. This is also where we usually are since we stay with our family here.

There are many nice hotels in Alabang, but Air BnBs are also available if you are feeling bold! Most lodging options are pretty affordable. Just make sure to check if they have air conditioning.

If you want a more luxurious mini get away, we’ve stayed in the following hotels in Pasay City in Manila proper and can confirm they are VERY nice:

Nobu

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The Admiral Hotel

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Okada

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Solaire

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These hotels are 4 or 5 star resorts that cost $150-$300/night depending on room type and time of the year. They’ll have prime viewing spots for Manila’s famous NYE fireworks and are near the airport and the Mall of Asia which has a great view and truly every store you can think of– including the largest Ikea in the world!

what to do and eat

Admittedly, we spend most of our time in the Philippines at home with the family or outside of Manila. But here are some things we’ve done and can recommend:

Intramuros:

“Intramuros” refers to a historic, walled area in Manila defined by its cobblestone streets and old-Spanish influence. It served as the home of the Spanish government during most of their rule of the Philippines (1575-1898) but also served as the educational, religious, and economic center of the country and city more broadly. While most of its original buildings and structures were destroyed in WWII at the Battle of Manila, Intramuros is still home to several Philippine government agencies, large churches, and schools, and is considered a National Historical Landmark. Guided tours are available, but if that is not your thing, Intramuros is walkable and contains plenty of tourist-friendly shops, cafes, and restaurants.

For a formal, guided tour, check out: https://guidetothephilippines.ph/articles/ultimate-guides/intramuros-manila-travel-guide

Mall of Asia:

Biggest IKEA in the world! Gorgeous sunset. Every store you can think of. Really good hotpot.

National Museums:

They’re free!

https://guidetothephilippines.ph/articles/history-culture/best-museums-manila

Other ideas:
https://www.tatlerasia.com/before-you-go

https://guidetothephilippines.ph/articles/what-to-experience/manila-tourist-spots

The Food Basics:

Jollibee - Philippines is the only country in the world where McDonald’s is not the most popular fast food chain. Instead, it’s jollibee! Come for quick and delicious chicken, rice, and gravy.
Max’s - another popular chain serving classic filipino food.
Shakey’s Pizza - this is the go to if you are craving some classic American food, though it still won’t compare to your local pizza joint.

Other recommendations:

https://www.eater.com/maps/best-restaurants-manila-philippines

https://www.forbes.com/sites/karlaalindahao/2019/03/14/manila-travel-guide-2019

metro-Manila

Manila, the capital of the Philippines, is actually just one of 17 cities housed in the “Metro-Manila” area. Each of the 17 cities have their own distinct feel but are still very intertwined. We recommend staying in Muntinlupa/Alabang, Makati, BGC, or Manila proper for ease of transport and access.

Learn more about the cities here: https://manilafyi.com/manila-vs-metro-manila-cities/

tagaytay

Tagaytay (tuh·guy·tai) is 1.5 hours south of Luzon and the region the wedding venue is in. It’s known for its views of Taal (ta·ahl) Volcano and Taal Lake.

getting there

You can book a one-way transfer from Manila to Tagaytay for ~$129 total for up to 6 people on Klook or Viator. You can also book a driver for the entire weekend here. Be aware that there are sometimes additional costs, such as fuel, tolls, or meals for the driver. It just depends on what's included in the package.

getting around

JoyRide App

Instead of the Grab app, Tagaytay uses Joyride to get around. You can download it here: https://joyride.com.ph/

Wedding Jeepney (Shuttle)

We have rented 2 jeepneys that will go from Twin Lakes Hotel to the venue on the day of the wedding. It will run from 2pm to 11:30 pm. Look for a big silver jeepney at Twin Lakes!